Papi sauce children with the father's surname how to step on the feminist "thunder"
Talk about Fengsheng
Feminism has never appealed to all women to stand up and defeat men and patriarchal surnames, but to choose an ideal autonomously and live without fear.
May 10 is Mother's Day, and the warmth in the circle of friends. Two months after the birth of the baby, the papi sauce who experienced the first Mother's Day sighed. I used to feel tired of studying for graduates, reading graduates, making videos, staying up late, and tired of traveling ... "Now I have found that nothing is as tired as a mother. When Mom is the most tired. "
Unexpectedly, "black pot" fell from the sky. An entertainment blogger said: Papi sauce has become very tired after giving birth, but the child still follows his father's surname! Afterwards, netizens watched and debated, and many people ridiculed and sneered, arguing that the independent female personality of Papi sauce is false. As an independent female, she did not pay attention to the "title of the surname".
"Crown surname rights" is an old issue that has been discussed for decades. Just last month, there was a "post of divorce for children's surname rights", which caused public opinion to buzz. Owning the "title of the surname" is regarded by many independent women as a symbol of the "awakening of feminist consciousness". But if the child has the husband's surname, should the papi sauce really be scolded?
As a modern independent woman, papi sauce does have its representativeness. This "woman who combines beauty and talent" does have a unique view of marriage and family, and is regarded by many people as the idol of modern independent women.
Nowadays, "Sister Fairy" descends, and like other married women, they have babies to raise their babies, and their faces are haggard. Many followers may feel a sense of disillusionment-it seems that the ideal of equality between men and women is ultimately lost to "babies."
Advocating equal rights for men and women is to actively strive for women's equal rights in education, career, marriage, and family. Nowadays, society is becoming more and more sensitive to this issue, and the idea of affirmative power is gradually becoming popular. This is a positive change, but some people are obviously not satisfied with the mutual equality and respect between husband and wife. They "sworn" to go to the other end of the balance, completely denying marriage and family, and even arbitrarily interfering with others' freedom of marriage and childbirth.
The reason why I emphasize "swearing" is because many people say they are unmarried, while cursing other married women, and fiddle with their marriage abacus. It is precisely these people with different hearts that are corrupting the reputation of feminism.
Women's rights first of all respect the freedom of women's choice. Let's take a look at the representatives of some independent women on the Internet today, such as papi sauce, Siwen, Fu Seoul, etc. Their independence actually lies in living in accordance with their own rhythm and ideas, confident, determined, not wronged, not catered.
Feminism has never appealed to all women to stand up and defeat men and patriarchal surnames, but to choose an ideal autonomously and live fearlessly. The view that using "surname right" to measure equality between men and women is just a new variant of the idea of male power in this era.
□ Meng Ran (media person)