Difficult experiences and the impact of the word

I believe that there is no person who has not experienced difficult experiences or experiences that affected his life and shook his existence and his being. Some come out of those experiences broken, defeated, or have scars and negative psychological effects, while others come out stronger and more solid.

In both cases, the effect of experiences and experiences is reflected in a person's behavior and his interaction with others. Some drop what he was subjected to others. He who is subjected to abuse in his childhood may abuse others, perhaps in the same way, while others are aware of the extent of suffering and the pain that he went through. He tries to relieve others and make sure that he is not subjected to such abuse.

Sometimes we are not very well aware of our behavior and our way of dealing with others, and we may do the same actions that we were complaining about without realizing it.

I remember a colleague who was always complaining about his manager and his actions, and he was always thinking about resigning because of that manager. And he was telling me all the details that I saved them. Over time, that friend was promoted to occupy an important management position, and if he does, he performs the same practices that he was complaining about, and treats his employees the same way his manager treated him without feeling.

But when he realized that, he began to notice and review his handling, and I imagine that he improved after that.

In an interview with a Scottish friend about the reason why the Scottish people are friendly and hospitable and open their doors with generosity to immigrants, he told me I think that because of the suffering of our people in the past, we care about each other and take care of each other. We also do not hope that anyone will suffer. So we care about others and open our doors to all people.

In contrast to this positive method, there are a large number of crimes in which the perpetrator was subjected to abuse at a young age, and thus satisfies the instinct of revenge in the same way that he suffered.

Man is the only being who is greatly affected by just a word or a smile, and a word said in a situation may change the course of a person’s life, so it is important that we constantly review our behavior and words, and teach our children the care and care of others.

We must also be positive by taking the initiative to help others pay attention to their behavior and be aware of the outcome of their actions. And if we do not have the ability to act, then at least we should be positive, even by the word. The Almighty urged us to the good word, and God Almighty said {And say to people well}. "Glory be to Him," the Almighty said, "He ascends the good word and good deeds raise him."

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