In the program "Without Rendez-Vous" on Europe 1, the sexologist Catherine Blanc responds to a listener who believes to have met very good lovers but worries about never having enjoyed.

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Orgasm is not automatic. For some women, this never even happened. In the show Sans Rendez-Vous on Europe 1, Catherine Blanc, sexologist and psychiatrist, answers the question of a listener who is worried about never having orgasm and wonders how this is possible.

Sophie's question

"All the men I have been with seemed like good lovers but I have never enjoyed ... Can some women ever enjoy?"

Catherine Blanc's answer

Yes it's possible. Beyond the physiological reasons, we can be psychologically blocked. That does not mean that her sexuality is neither pleasant nor comfortable but that she does not start orgasm.

If we do not have an orgasm, maybe it's because we're too young?

Yes, young women are often more worried than mature women and therefore too much in control. The more a woman matures, the more she can agree to let go and feel things that come from the contact of the other, the surprise that can cause the other. Around forty years old often, women discover orgasm.

Is it related to male performance?

Sophie is very honest because she seems to tell us that it does not come from her partner. She wonders about her. Nothing is wrong with her physiologically but emotionally. There are people that we can touch, caress or massage, they do not have the ability to accommodate the pleasure of massage. But to be able to enjoy, one must be in one's body, in receptivity and not in observation. We are in front of a person who has seen that his lovers did very well things, she watches them do but she is not in the reception.

Are there tips to enjoy more easily?

It all depends on how a woman invests her body. If she needs to invest her body in a "deep" way, all the positions that will allow a deep penetration will allow her to have a clearer feeling. Others will seek rather a friction of the clitoris, a body-to-body which will make that the clitoris is solicited. For some women, a sex is a gaping hole, an empty space. But it is because of this idea that nothing happens.