There are two types of errors when contraceptives are used: one is the method, which is the use procedure that is usually indicated in the product, and the other the human.
Considered the most popular contraceptive method and one of the best barriers to protection against some Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs), the effectiveness of the condom is around 98% , according to the World Health Organization, provided that use correctly and sustainably.
However, each mistake made in its use would cause the estimated failure rate to rise to 18%, instead of the basic 2%.
After knowing these data, you may no longer think only of using them (which is essential), but also how to do it correctly. In this way, not only will you save yourself scares but you can fully enjoy yourself, letting your body and mind flow without fear.
These are the 21 most frequent mistakes you can make or avoid when using the male condom. It's up to you:
1. Do not read the instructions.
They appear in all boxes and condom packaging. If you do not understand them or it goes wrong, consult an expert.
2. Stop doing analysis.
Do not believe that, when using it, you no longer need to review your sexual health status. Perform STI checks frequently.
3. Do not eroticize your placement.
Do it during the erotic game so that it does not "cut the roll" or lazily stop to place it. You will avoid the loss of excitement, erection or desire.
4. Keep it where you shouldn't.
Forget about leaving it in the car, purse, wallet (unless you are going to use it that same day) or in a place where it can be punctured or near a heat source. You have to keep it in good condition so you don't get a surprise.
5. Do not look at the expiration date.
Yes, condoms expire. Make sure it isn't before the match. With the heater you will pass and could break.
6. Do not use your size.
There is great variety, so do not use the one that was not made for you. If you are too small, it could squeeze, break or even cause you to lose your erection. If it fits you, it could stay inside during penetration.
7. Do not use your own condoms.
You don't know how others keep them, if they are your size or they give you an allergy. Take yours and bet on safe sex.
8. Open it with your mouth.
A very serious error that carries a high risk of breakage. Even if you see it in the movies and it seems sexy, remember that it is fiction.
9. Use it without sufficient lubrication.
Apart from inconvenience, they will avoid breakage and chafing, which increases the risk of infection. If there is not enough natural lubrication, do not hesitate to add an artificial one.
10. Do not use the proper lubricant.
A safe bet are water based or water soluble. If you want to innovate, inform yourself well before using them with a latex condom.
11. Do not squeeze the tip.
There is a deposit on the tip that must always be tightened with the fingertips, never with the nails, for placement. If not done, it could break.
12. Turn it upside down.
It is not reversible so remember that it has to be placed as if it were a Mexican hat. In this way, you can slide it to cover the penis.
13. Reuse it.
They are single use. They are neither washed nor recycled.
14. Do not change according to practice.
With each practice it has to be changed, especially if it goes from anus to vagina or mouth. In addition, the annals are thicker.
15. Put it on late.
Playing unprotected with the typical "just the tip" can be expensive. All penetration must be accompanied by a condom.
16. Take it off late.
After ejaculating, the descent of the erection is outside. Curled up in "teaspoon", if you wish, but without penetration.
17. Do not use it for oral sex.
There are no lubricants or flavored, if you prefer. There are also latex patches, to practice on the vulva or anus.
18. Put it with your mouth.
You might think it's cool, but if you don't know how to do it, don't take a chance.
19. Use two simultaneously.
That way you will be subtracting effectiveness. If you need more security, combine it with another compatible contraceptive method
20. Use it only sometimes.
If sometimes you use it and sometimes you don't, or you don't always do it correctly, it won't help. It has to be a constant practice.
21. Do not use protection.
If you do not like male condoms, they give you an allergy or you lose your erection when you put them on and you end up removing it for that reason, you have no excuse for not using another barrier method of contraception. The female or internal condom is a good alternative.
Polyurethane, antiallergic, and although its use has not become popular, it covers the vulva more, which offers greater protection against STIs. You will also find the male format in that material and even vegan.
Ana Sierra is a sexologist
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