Is your baby also like this: interested in the Rubik's Cube, after doing it again, go to the "Little Red Book" to find a guide; After a biology class, I went to "Station B" to search for various paleontological video introductions, and all the cold knowledge that ordinary people did not know was said, and parents called out "when did he learn it" in their hearts; Even if parents don't understand the software application, the child has long been "clear", and he gives parents a few instructions at every turn...

Many parents lamented that in the past, they were more thinking about how to let their children not be addicted to the Internet, emphasizing the protection and reducing the time of teenagers online, but now, the Internet has become ubiquitous, living expenses, learning improvement, we are inseparable from it. However, with all the mud and sand of online content, what kind of distance should our children maintain from online applications?

The distance is closely related to the length of high-quality parent-child relationship.

The "Blue Book for Minors: Research Report on the Digital Life and Online Protection of Minors in China (2021-2022)" released by the Laboratory of Social Psychology and Behavior of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences and the Social Sciences Literature Press shows that the family environment will directly affect the intensity of minors' motivation to go online, and the more parents know about their children, the more frequent parent-child interaction, and the closer the parent-child relationship, the less minors will rely on Internet use to meet psychological needs, and their motivation to go online will weaken. When the psychological needs of children to get along with each other cannot be met in the family scene, the Internet has become the second most retreat option. Put down the mobile phone, listen to the child's heart, care and care, bake with the child in the free time, exercise together, explore the mysteries of nature together, walk into the ocean of books together, before worrying about the child's use of the Internet for too long, parents should first reflect on whether their companionship is in place, heart-to-heart, sincere.

This distance is closely related to the quality of content provided by web applications in "teen mode".

Opening various apps to remind "whether to enter teen mode" is already a very common pop-up window. Around 2019, major domestic short video platforms have launched the "Youth Mode", which strictly limits the use time, time period, and use functions, and plays an important role in preventing teenagers' short video addiction. In particular, the restrictions on the use of functions avoid the abuse of teenagers' short videos and protect their privacy and rights. Content screening also effectively avoids the misguidance of bad information on teenagers' world view and values. For example, some platforms improve the content pool of the youth mode by analyzing the data of the top video types that teenagers like to watch, the popular videos that teenagers like to watch, increase the subdivision category, and select high-quality content that is entertaining and educational in many fields such as education, popular science, musical instruments, and sports, and at the same time add the video collection recommendation function to optimize the content experience of the teen mode. But at the same time, the construction of the youth mode content pool should pay more attention to scientific and diversification, to avoid the juvenile content pool through layering, minors need to see different things in life in the development, just like we eat grains in our diet, we must combine the interesting and meaningful, make more positive mainstream content, and better optimize the youth protection model.

The distance of this distance is closely related to the care of the whole society for young people.

The Supreme People's Court launched a special live broadcast activity "Seeing China's Juvenile Courts" in Kuaishou, focusing on the online traps that teenagers may fall into, such as "free mobile phones" and "free game skins", to guide young people to establish correct legal awareness and more clearly distinguish right from wrong on the Internet. In terms of the protection of juvenile information security, the Ninth Procuratorate of the Supreme People's Procuratorate, the Information Office of the Supreme People's Procuratorate, and CCTV's "Rule of Law Online" also launched the "Protect the Juvenile You" activity in Kuaishou, inviting legal experts and scholars, prosecutors, judicial social workers, etc. to tell real cases with journalists, popularize legal knowledge such as minors' information security to minors and the public in a simpler and easy-to-understand way, and use the efforts of all sectors of society to protect the cybersecurity of minors. Families, schools, and society are all using more humane ways, warmer care angles, and more perfect content supply to meet the learning and growth needs of minors, and promote more and more online applications to become community platforms for minors to broaden their horizons, develop their interests, and learn knowledge.

Fortunately, the survey found that at present, more than 50% of teenagers are more than rejecting short video content that does not comply with social norms, violates social fairness and has discriminatory behavior, which shows that teenagers have become more and more able to distinguish short video content, of course, there are also certain differences in the discrimination ability of adolescents of different ages. Today, families, schools, and society should protect and guide adolescents on the premise of trusting and supporting them, and at the same time co-create, co-build, share and better develop the youth model of network applications, which is also a respect for the rights and subjectivity of adolescents.

China Youth Daily / China Youth Net reporter Yang Yue Source: China Youth Daily