In Xuchang, Henan, a young man born in 1997 led a group of young people to set up a nursing home.
There, the young heart illuminates the afterglow of the setting sun.
This is how the elderly in this nursing home in Xuchang, Henan Province spent this Spring Festival.
A full and lively day is the epitome of their daily life.
In the classroom for the elderly, unable to solve math problems, the daily life of the nursing home was recorded by Fan Jinlin, the dean of the post-90s generation, and posted on social platforms. The life of grandparents in their later years has attracted the attention of millions of fans.
"Happiness" is the key word of this nursing home, and it is also the reason why Fan Jinlin decided to join the nursing industry.
Fan Jinlin's parents used to run a nursing home, but Fan Jinlin himself majored in broadcasting and hosting and law, which had nothing to do with the elderly.
Until an accident happened when his grandma was living alone, he made up his mind to run a different nursing home by himself.
Fan Jinlin, Director of the Nursing Home: My grandma was alone at home, because her parents were busy, she fell and was hospitalized.
At that time, people had some stereotypes about nursing homes. Everyone thought that nursing homes were dirty and messy, and might treat the elderly badly. I wanted to open a nursing home managed by young people.
In this case, I can rest assured that grandma will send it in.
The ideal is beautiful, but the reality is difficult.
Due to his lack of experience in taking care of the elderly, Fan Jinlin, who just graduated from university, was at a loss as to how to build and manage nursing homes.
Unexpectedly, as soon as the grandmother in her 80s came out, she immediately improved.
Fan Jinlin's grandma An Fengying: The first thing I did when I came to the nursing home, I saw that the elderly were all here when they got up, lying on their stomachs, and sleeping on their stomachs. I said why don't you say anything, come on, clap your hands.
You shoot one and I shoot one, a child holds a mobile phone, you shoot ten and I shoot ten, the health is like a rock, and the health is like a rock.
Slowly, the old people, the old people and the young people became one.
Fan Jinlin also figured out a way to get along with the old man, and helped the old man untangle his heart.
Fan Jinlin, director of the Nursing Home: There is an old man who is the most serious. He was severely depressed when he moved in. He didn’t talk to his children, and he didn’t talk to the nurses after he came in. Because my university also took the exam for a psychological counselor. It was found that this old man lacked a sense of existence and accomplishment.
My method is to say, let this grandma peel the oranges for me.
I said grandma, I'm too busy today, you can peel an orange for me, I didn't wait for her to answer, I put it on her.
When I came over, the grandma peeled the orange there, and even exposed the white thing for me very cleanly. Suddenly one day, he greeted me, and she also started talking to other people.
Today, the nursing home managed by Fan Jinlin takes care of 240 elderly people, with an average age of 80.
Most of the nursing staff are between 45 and 55 years old, and the average age of management is around 30 years old.
Behind the young team is a young idea.
Fan Jinlin, Dean of Nursing Homes: Most of the nursing homes run by the parents are for the material life of the elderly, such as food, clothing, housing and transportation.
But when I was in operation, I found that I might want more than that, so I formed a team of young people to make a personalized assessment for each elderly person on the basis of completing the basic services for the elderly.
Our old man probably has such a thick stack of paper. He can accurately know what TV the old man likes to watch every day, what time he watches it, whether he likes to sleep in, how many people are in his small circle, what kind of food he likes to eat, how many people are there? A child, we saw this grandma today, she was in a bad mood, why?
After checking, her daughter hasn’t seen her for a long time, so we pretended that her daughter sent a fruit package by mail, and told grandma, grandma, your daughter is too busy, she said let me convey it to you, and bought you some fruit , you eat, grandma will be in a good mood immediately.
The latest addition to the team is a group of post-95s who are responsible for recording videos and playing games with the elderly.
The old people are exposed to more and more new things, and they have more common topics with their grandchildren.
Fan Jinlin's grandma An Fengying: I was against nursing homes at first, why?
I have sons and daughters, a daughter-in-law and a grandson. Once I come to the nursing home, my family is gone, so I have this kind of prejudice. After I come to the nursing home, I say you can do it freely, and I won’t hold you back. hind legs.
When I came to the nursing home, I ate and drank, twisted, jumped, jumped, so I felt that I was right to come to the nursing home.
Letting grandma live in a happy nursing home, Fan Jinlin's original wish has come true, but he still wants to bring this happiness to more elderly people.
This year, Fan Jinlin will open a new nursing home, and the short video series he insisted on before will continue to be updated.
Fan Jinlin, Dean of the Nursing Home: Actually, I shot a short video to let everyone see that grandma has light in her eyes and love in her heart.
You also feel free to boldly communicate with your grandparents.