Original title: Write a resume for overseas investment, try "One Week CP"... Now that young people are all fighting like this when they get out of orders?
China-Singapore Jingwei Client, October 5 (Lin Wansi) In recent years, for some young people, the theme of returning home on the National Day has become a marriage urging conference.
News such as running away from home because of "being blind dated", choosing to stay at work to escape parents' blind date arrangements, etc. news stir young people's nerves from time to time.
Resisting blind dates seems to be a label on young people.
However, in the blind date market, there are still some young people who make no secret of their desire for blind date.
During the 11th Golden Week, the China-Singapore Jingwei reporter interviewed a number of young people who are willing and experienced blind dates. Let's listen to their blind date stories!
Source: Baotu Network
KPIs for blind dates
On the weekend, Xiaomei sat in the coffee shop to revise her "resume."
A piece of A4 paper is covered with Xiaomei's personal experience: 27 years old, graduated from a TOP university abroad, with an annual income of 300,000, and both parents have company information.
In addition, Xiaomei's 5 refined selfies are on the paper and are eye-catching.
She made a resume not to find a job, but to date a blind date.
"Everyone is very busy, who will take the time to get to know you? Spend time on the blade. The resume is the most basic social pass. If you have any hard conditions, you must boldly throw it out. What is each other's like?
In 2018, Xiaomei returned to China from studying abroad and joined an Internet company in Beijing. She is usually busy at work, and even after get off work, she also contributed to the company's KPI (Key Performance Indicator).
Xiaomei, who pays attention to efficiency at work, believes that blind dates must also be efficient. The KPI she set for blind dates is "to exchange resumes with at least one boy every week."
Most of the boys expressed dissatisfaction with the "blind date resume" and felt that they were like a clearly priced product, so they blacked Xiaomei, but there was also a boy who gave out a more refined resume, which made Xiaomei impressed instantly and doubled her favor. It's challenging, it's the type I like."
Boys' family background and personal abilities are comparable to Xiaomei.
Xiao Mei's heart was moved, her affection for the boy soared to 90%, and she made an appointment to meet offline.
After having dinner together, Xiao Mei found that no matter how high the background match, the two of them did not call.
Moreover, because of work reasons, Xiaomei needs to travel to various places, and the two gradually faded out and became transparent people in the friends list.
"This feeling is more important than being right and loving each other." Xiaomei sighed.
Data map: Pudong International Airport.
Photo by Lin Wansi, China-Singapore Jingwei
Longing for an "arranged love"
"My dad actually refused me a blind date invitation. It seems that I have to calmly let him know that I might need a blind date." Xiaojin's circle of friends attracted the crowd of college students: "You are only 23 years old, anxious What?"
In 2020, she just graduated and plunged into Beijing's media industry. She lives at two o'clock every day. Except for her male colleagues, Xiaojin talks with less than three men a week on average, let alone off the list.
Xiao Jin couldn't help sighing: "Rather than just sitting and waiting for death, it is better to take the initiative to meet more boys."
In 2019, Zhenai.com released the "2019Q1 Single Crowd Survey Report", showing that single men and women were younger than 23 years old for their first blind date, and nearly half of those born after 95 had blind date experience.
2000 kilometers away from home, and also far away from the relationship network of her hometown, Xiaojin's parents feel that she is still young and has a choice, but Xiaojin is eager to "arrange love" more than anyone else.
In recent years, some articles on "blind date contempt chain" have often been screened, which also made Xiaojin, who laughed at himself as "three no people" (no house, car, and registered permanent residence), feel a little anxious.
The one who hit her directly was a blind date in Yuyuantan Park in Beijing. The A4 paper in the hand of an aunt read: "Girl born in 1998, height 168cm, graduated from Ivy League University, aboriginal in Beijing, stable income, two suites at home. "
"Such a girl still lacks objects?" While Xiaojin was puzzled, he was also full of worries about his "quotations" on the blind date market.
Unlike Xiaojin's parents, Xiaoying's parents didn't say anything in a hurry, but in fact they had to seek marriage for their daughter every time they worshiped Buddha.
Xiao Yingguang, who was admitted as a civil servant in his hometown after graduating from university, had kissed 30 times last year.
The rich experience of blind dates also allowed her to sum up her experience: teachers, doctors and civil servants, these three professions can be called "sweet and pastry" on the blind date.
However, despite this, Xiaoying, who is regarded as a "sweet rice cake" in the eyes of others, has still not succeeded in getting out of the order.
From 24 to 29 years old, the age of the blind date introduced by parents through relatives and friends ranges from 5 or 6 years older than Xiaoying to 1 or 2 years younger than her.
For blind dates, Xiaoying’s attitude is "not too much". She believes that the advantage of relatives and friends introducing blind dates is to use her rich life experience to help herself avoid the risks of marriage and love.
Try "a week cp" for 5 yuan
Born in 1999, Bo Lin was a junior in a university in Beijing. He said that he had zero experience in falling in love. The closest moment to leaving the single was "the official cp (couple pairing) in the game group".
As an engineering man who works on projects every day, Bo Lin has a small circle of friends and few girls around him.
Recently, the school held a "one-week couple" dating event. Bo Lin paid 5 yuan to sign up at the instigation of his roommates. "Love is not something you can buy if you want to buy it. If 5 yuan can be used for fate, then It's worth it," Bo Lin said.
It is understood that in the "One Week CP" event, the staff will match the cp according to the preferences of the participants. The two sides will work together to complete the check-in task of different themes in a week, break the ice and get to know each other. The two can start with friends or Advance the progress of the exchange at any time.
"If you have feelings, you can continue to communicate after 7 days. If you don't call, you can break up at any time without pressure." Bolin introduced to the reporter of Zhongxin Jingwei.
After the matching results were released, Bolin and alumni Xiaoju formed a "week cp", "Although it is through introduction, we pay more attention to spiritual communication, and the blind date that puts material conditions on the table is still somewhat different."
At first, Xiaoju thought that it was difficult to give true emotions under the name of "One Week CP", but the conversation with Bo Lin made Xiaoju change his mind.
They went to class and ate together, shared their favorite music, they "eat chicken" together, and they shared photos with each other, and each became a spice in each other's lives.
Bo Lin's fried noodles for Xiaoju.
Photo courtesy of respondents
On the 4th day after the event started, Bolin told reporters from Sino-Singapore Jingwei that the two completed the task of couples sent by the group leader every day and gradually became one of the last couples in this event.
"In fact, no matter what the result is, at least we have taken a brave step forward, and our story is not over yet to be continued." Bo Lin said.
(Zhongxin Jingwei APP)
(At the request of interviewees, Xiaowen, Xiaoying, Xiaomei, Bo Lin, and Xiaoju are all pseudonyms)
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