Women love him and men avoid him .. The most famous Kuwaiti speech tells his story to Al-Jazeera Net

Mahmoud Al-Kafrawi - Kuwait

From a small office, which is nothing more than a single room inside a social center, the man became famous and fame reached the horizons until he was called the "first Kuwait's speech"

Between the love of many men wishing to multiply, or looking for the other half for the first time, and hated by some women in particular, "Khalaf Al-Hamad" lives months of work in the profession of discourse in Kuwait.

Al-Hamad (65 years) spent about 21 years reconciling those wishing to marry (marriage), something that happened by chance after his success in the task of marrying some relatives and friends, which led him to think about professionalizing this work in a way that surpasses other even women working in public speaking, justifying The matter of women being bored of rhetoric and the need of men for a man like them reveal to him the chest.

Many books are accumulated by the man in the drawers of his modest office, who decorates his walls with pictures of previous press and TV interviews with him. These notebooks contain what he describes as a mined database that includes the names and information of those wishing to marry, estimated at three thousand women's requests and four thousand requests from men between 2017 and 2019, from different countries of the Arab world, but most of them are Kuwaiti, of course.

The man allocates notebooks for the citizens of the country, the other for residents, and a third for those who want polygamy, and a fourth for those who seek marriage misyar, who the application is described by men as beyond description. The work tools also include a data form for men and other women, each of which includes details of personal information and specifications required in the future partner.

Al-Hamad is proud that many artists and communication stars got married at his hands, as his activity extended to some Arab countries, and he states that one year a Gulf woman called him and asked him to search for a bride for her husband, which is one of the statesmen and he did search for him but he did not succeed in the matter, except He later succeeded in marrying two women from Qatar, one from a Qatari man and the second from a Gulf, and he currently has a plan to open offices in a number of countries including Egypt, Jordan and Lebanon in coordination with his friends in those countries.

In exchange for money
Praise be to Al-Jazeera Net that he receives, for his work, an amount of 250 dinars (about eight hundred dollars) from each party. Once the form is filled out, the applicant from both parties must pay thirty dinars (about a hundred dollars) and the rest upon completion of the contract, and may resort to installments if necessary. He justifies charging him for a fee, as this is his only occupation, explaining that his income from it varies from month to month.

The long years of work were not without oddities and wonders, the most famous of which was when a bride who offered her a person wanted her to marry the letter personally, which prompted him to withdraw after telling the applicant that there was an emergency circumstance in the bride's family.

Another strange case that Abu Hamad encountered - as is his fame - when he was able to reconcile a wealthy widow of 65 years and a 27-year-old man who had never been married, something that was attended by the sons of the woman and the eldest of thirty years. Likewise, he had previously married an elderly He is 76 years old with a Gulf lady between the ages of 20 and 28.

Abu Hamad believes in polygamy, but he did not marry only "Umm Hamad", whose marriage was concluded in 1980, without seeing it permanently before the wedding night because of the customs and traditions at the time, and he has had from her five sons and daughters, but the rumors always chase him according to his description between those who marry him by two and four by four , So that in one year a woman came to him and offered to marry her, and he did not seem to escape from her except to ask her as a joke that she would give him a fatwa authorizing him to marry more than four women.

The man is unhappy that one night he wanted to keep up with the announcer of one of the programs on the air, and he informed him of his marriage to a woman other than his wife, so he was not from “Umm Hamad” except when I told him after his return that he was forbidden from staying at home this night because of the severity of her anger, but the matter went peacefully after clarification of it .

The "Kuwaiti discourse" justifies his failure to resort to polygamy by being the owner of a profession, and that the number of applicants has countless and there is an actual need for many of them for various reasons, such as sterility of the wife, for example, or the presence of differences between the spouses and other matters.

As for the position of women towards him, he says that many of them love him, and many also hate him to the point that when he was reviewing in a government agency, one of the employees kidnapped the transaction and terminated it as soon as possible, and once again the employee deliberately slowed the transaction on the pretext that she found his identification card (business card) in Her husband's pocket. As for men, the majority avoids photographing with him or having any evidence to prove any relationship for fear of their wives. The photo or card may explode a dispute that may amount to divorce.