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Celia Blanco (Madrid, 1972). In the summer of 2014 he began to direct as an experiment a sex space in the SER Network: he had 423,000 listeners and that became the fixed program with You inside , which is already in its fifth year on the air.

How are we doing about sex? In general or in particular? Because I have sex very well ... In general, I asked him in general ... Well, in general we are confused and in particular deceived. They've been cheating us with sex for a long time, telling us how we have to do things. What do you like BDSM, sado-masochistic practices? Well, they tell you how you have to do them so that they work out well. Sex today is teletienda. And what it is about is breaking the stereotypes. Then start breaking them ... Who are you? I am a 47-year-old woman, who has been in a relationship for 15 years, who has an 11-year-old son and who never meets with what they expect from me. What is the main error or prejudice that we drag about sex? To think that what excites us should not be done. Can you give me an example? It is still thought that men who like anal sex cannot be straight. And we still think that women are very complex in relation to sex and that it is difficult to satisfy ourselves and give us pleasure, when what happens is that women have not let us talk about those who give us pleasure. And when the man realizes that pleasure can be handled by ourselves, he feels threatened. Does he mean female masturbation? I mean the clitoris, an organ whose sole and exclusive function is to give pleasure, is useless . It has more than 8,000 nerve endings, more than any other organ. And yet, there is hardly any talk of the clitoris. A man, every time he urinates, takes his penis, and that implies that he knows how to give pleasure from a very young age. However, they tell us since we were girls that we don't touch each other. Do you know what makes me crazy from the sexual fabric of this country? What makes you mad? Well, there is not a single school textbook, not a single one, in which when the vagina or vulva appears the clitoris comes out. Why do girls have to tell each other in the schoolyard what they have between their legs as if they were passing a paper of 'farlopa'? Why do they educate us like that? And what do you answer? Well, they educate us like that to control us. I remind you that there are tribes that directly close the clitoris to women to control their sexuality. Are we still repressed? Yes, very much. The other day, for example, I went to the notary in the Salamanca district of Madrid, to Mr. Aznar. He told me that my program seemed very interesting but that it was limited to a certain type of people: gays, transsexual women and anyone who got out of established stereotypes. "What can I learn from a program like yours?" He released me. "Dear Mr. Aznar," I replied. "Has none of your friends told you that he likes to get dildos in his anus? Because I know that some of them like it." Does sexuality have no limits? The only limits to sexuality are those set by the Criminal Code. The Criminal Code includes everything that is a crime with respect to sexuality. Is it good to have sexual fantasies? It is very good. But the best of sexual fantasies is to make them come true. Making them a reality gives you a huge shot of self-esteem and provides an important discharge of endorphins. In each orgasm we receive an injection of oxytocin, we generate endorphins, serotonins and eliminate toxins. Pouring a 'dust' illuminates your face, how it will not illuminate it. In addition, 600 calories are burned with each 'powder'. Do you like porn? I like porn. Specifically, lesbian porn is the only one I see, and not much. I like the porn that Erika Lust does, the one that Anneke Necro did ... I watch porn for the same thing as everyone: to make me straws. I do not give greater importance to porn. What's more: I think a person, the more he knows about sex, the less porn he sees. Since I know so much about sex, I see less porn. I masturbate more with literature than with porn. You published in 2014 "With two heels," a book about female sexual fantasies. What did he discover? Well, the forties were beginning to like their twenties. And also that one of the most recurring fantasies among women is that of rape. The theatricalization of a rape, of course, not a real rape but a rape in which women control the violence: that they can live it, enjoy and leave it unscathed. Do you have that fantasy? No, it is not mine.Give me infallible sexual advice ... Put yourself in front of the mirror and say yourself looking at your face what things you like the most, what things you like least and what things that don't happen to him would like to happen to him. Only with that exercise are there people who realize how structured their sexuality is. Are our relationship with sex modifying new technologies? What they do in my opinion is to add, open up new possibilities. Before, when your partner was leaving for 3,000 kilometers for work, you masturbated thinking about him. Now you can make a video call and you can 'videofollar' it. The new technologies give us the possibility of having another type of sexuality. A study argues that in the year 2050 there will be more relationships of a robot-human couple than human-human ... Sure. What happens is that by then I will be 70 years old, and I think I will continue to like the touch of human skin.

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