Tight family, tight waist, tight IQ... "Four tight youth" is a little anxious

　　"Tight on hand", "Family tight", "Pants tight", "Quotient IQ"... "Four tight youth" is a little anxious

Guide

　　The Internet buzzword "Four Tight Youth" is used to describe some young people who live online at home. During the epidemic period, pocket money shrank dramatically. They often quarreled with their parents due to trivial matters, lost a lot of exercise, and suddenly were notified to resume school. The thesis has just written an introduction, unable to hand in homework on time, and will not do anything at the beginning of the exam, facing "tight at hand", "family tight", "pants tight" "intelligent IQ".

　　Doing epidemic prevention on the one hand, focusing on academics and busy employment; from constantly adapting to online courses to nostalgic campus life, from focusing on physical health to focusing on the inner world. The young people in the epidemic tried to laugh at themselves.

"Four tight youth is my portrait"

　　Many college students smile when they hear the saying of "four tight youths". "This description will more or less poke young people." said Xiang Jingzuo, a graduate student from Dalian Ocean University.

　　University student netizen "Little Transparency" said that because she was at home for too long, she often had constant friction with her family due to trifles. "Daily washing the dishes and drying clothes to maintain the family relationship, all day nagging by my mother, I am really too difficult." She said.

　　"The tight waist of the house is really too real." Li Hao, a junior student of Harbin Engineering University, said that the family's food is good and lack of exercise, and it is indeed a lot fatter. "An emoticon circulated on the Internet is very interesting,'I am 10 pounds fat, I am 5 pounds fat, it seems like our family is not in good condition', everyone feels talking about themselves."

　　As online teaching progressed steadily, students gradually adapted to online classes. However, due to different learning environments, some people were lax in planning, not focused, and their learning status was different from that at school.

　　"Persistent sluggishness, intermittent ambitions, the glory of the king and the "eating chicken" are unloaded and unloaded, unloaded and unloaded..." Weibo netizen "Which one is happy" said, because of the lack of self-discipline, it affects the learning efficiency. Some netizens also said that when listening to lessons with a computer, they also unconsciously fluttered.

　　"The vacation time is prolonged, and I miss the school more and more." Some students believe that the atmosphere of the school library is more suitable for review, and the learning efficiency will be higher. At the same time, because some courses are not suitable for online, for example, engineering-related professional courses need experiments and deductions, it is impossible to think through themselves, and people can't help but feel that "IQ can't keep up."

　　In addition to the "four tight", some graduates are still in the critical stage of finding a job, "offer tight" and "employment tight" also trouble them. "The future is full of uncertainty, and various pressures are coming one after another, with some anxiety and hesitation." said Liu Juan, a doctoral student at Renmin University of China.

The real problem in self-mockery

　　Interviewees pointed out that although the "Four Tights" are self-deprecating, there is also hidden behind the troubles caused by the epidemic to young people, which should be paid attention to and strengthened.

　　——The quality of online courses needs to be improved, and teacher-student interaction is needed. When teaching online, some teachers have reduced communication with students and lack interaction. This requires teachers to be more fully prepared when preparing lessons, and reasonably choose remote teaching tools. However, in the face of the new situation of online courses, some teachers are slow to accept new things, and still follow the old ideas of offline teaching, resulting in poor classroom results.

　　——Pay attention to the harmonious family atmosphere, resolve the contradiction early and do not stay overnight. Liu Yueyan, a student of Harbin Institute of Technology, said that the family environment has a certain impact on learning. For example, parents may watch TV in the living room, they may slip at any time, and at home for a long time, the relationship with parents is inevitable tension. A parent interviewed stated that parents should cooperate appropriately with their children online, turn off the sound of the small TV, and mute the mobile phone to create a relatively quiet learning space for the children. "It's hard to avoid quarreling at home for a long time, but there is something openly and honestly, let's discuss, don't stay overnight," said the parent.

　　-Self-psychological decompression and strengthening physical exercise. Wu Songquan, head of the Student Work Department of Harbin Institute of Technology, believes that "overall tension" is not only a self-deprecating phrase for young students in special situations, but also a funny expression for them to face life directly. Although they are anxious, they alleviate anxiety through humor, which is a way for young students to relieve themselves during the epidemic. A sports teacher in a vocational school said that exercise is a recommended method of decompression. It is not convenient to go out during an outbreak. Small-scale and low-intensity projects are easier to operate. For example, Baduanjin is a good choice.

Multi-party collaboration helps "promising future"

　　Some interviewed students suggested that school teachers can effectively discuss topics on the Internet to effectively guide students to think rationally, rather than blindly vent their emotions. At the same time, the typical characters and advanced deeds in the fight against the epidemic are transformed into vivid teaching materials for young people to inquire into their hearts, guide their thoughts and promote their actions.

　　At present, the starting time of colleges and universities is clearly defined. Students should be assisted in scientific and effective time management as soon as possible, treat the coursework and thesis in a planned manner, and successfully go through the transition period from home to school. For example, some students find companions online, establish a "punch group", send today's plan every morning, report progress in the evening, and play a role of mutual supervision.

　　"It is a normal phenomenon for some students to laugh at themselves as "four tight youths", and it is not necessary to smell the discoloration." Wu Songquan believes that psychological counseling should be strengthened to help young people relieve their anxiety and focus their attention and action on enhancing self-discipline and sharpening. In terms of will and tempering skills, through hard work, the "four tightnesses" will be transformed into "like brocades".

　　Experts interviewed suggested that various regions and departments can issue policies to support employment and create a variety of innovation and entrepreneurship platforms, so that young people can reduce pressure and move towards the future with vitality. (Half-month reporter: Yang Siqi)