Marriage does not succeed in love .. but contain!

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The eternal problem between men and women, and although it is crystal clear, its perfect solution is "supposed to know on your own". The problem lies in the ease of the man's mind, and the woman's very complex mind. I have heard before that the mind of a man as a single room, but the mind of women consists of several rooms, all what is required by the man is the act or direct, the interpretation easier and faster without going into details, while women are able to explain the details of detail and analysis and receive and send, Also.

Thus, Eve and Adam in an eternal conflict, resulting from the different mental composition, always requires women to know men alone, while the man tells him that he can not predict the unseen and that she must tell him what you want directly. I divide myself into two parts, part of me trying to fight the nature of women and hormones and complexities, and ask directly what he wants, and even speaks easily and directly and without going into details. And another part surrenders to being a woman whose composition is complicated or desired.

Sometimes I pity men for the difficulty of dealing with us, and that all acrobatics must be performed so that only the satisfaction of the women is guaranteed. And sometimes I wonder about them and the key to their happiness, comfort and tranquility of their lives, which may be the word "I love you" or "What is this beautiful dress ?!" Or even "I miss you" or a rose, what is the difficulty of this act? But the most accurate question: How much it cost them for the joy of life and free of the Balzz and the connection of the word "Mafish" and thousands of times when you inquire about the cause of change ?!

If he finds this man who sends messages and praises and spies, they call him a woman or a multi-relationship, and his friends ridicule him and described him as not a man, and other titles that quickly make him stop to become a man in their eyes. No matter how great a woman is with learning, beauty and self-confidence, but also how old she is, even if she becomes a grandmother, she needs praise, passion and a sweet word.

We grew up on the poems of Nizar Qabbani, and the singing of Kazem El Saher in his barefoot sweetheart, offering her a short time and sometimes asking her to spoil him, until we thought that all the men were Nazar and all the lovers were Kazem. I always wonder: What is the difference between two old men holding each other's hands and eating ice cream, talking and whispering and laughing, and an old couple before the husband's wife to walk, and sitting in a place that sees extreme silence as if they finished all the characters in the language of their marriage ?!

Whenever you open the subject of different men and women and the flowering of happy marital life, the medicine is the phrase "the key to happiness in the wife's hand." I do not deny the role of the wife actually in this happiness and stability, but why all this marginalization of the role of men in this happiness? Happiness is like a tennis match, both do what it has and what it is .. so it will be a fun game. Imagine if a party has done all the work and the other party is just a receiver. At first it will be fun, there is a winner, but after a while it will be a boring game, there is a winner but it is boring, so this winner will feel lonely. On the other hand imagine that the two parties are playing professionally, mistakes here pay, sometimes equal, will be a fun game, so you will not close your eyes for a moment so you do not miss something.

Do not seek love, hoping that it is salvation, there is no salvation with a heart, the heart between the fingers of Rahman turn it as he pleases, let us contain all the lofty meanings and lofty goals

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Let the woman tell what she wants directly, and the man will tell her from time to time without reasons, and let life be easy and clear and happy for all, the real password is containment, containment behind the success of any relationship, couples or parents or even friends .. In my personal belief containment more important than love stages , How much of a lover could not keep his love with little containment! How much content saved his love of loss with his ability to contain! For me, I am a person who feeds on containment, so I have no successful relationships with anyone around me, but even with a cup of coffee. If I do not have it at the beginning of my day, I know that it is a stressful day.

I asked myself, I am the lines of these lines that come out of the heart without prior arrangement: Is love easier as an act or containment? The answer is no doubt: Containment is harder. Containment needs to be tuned to the self often, with many of the fancy violation to complete the course of the relationship. In fact, blessed is the one who holds in his pocket containment, so this sale profit and God, won a successful relationship and healthy, winning the validity of the longest relationship, won short-lived problems and longevity.

Do not seek love, hoping it is salvation, there is no salvation with a heart, the heart between the fingers of Rahman turn it as he pleases, let us contain all his lofty meanings and lofty goals. Yes, if content is contained in it, the father and the mother with their children created psychologically healthy children of the community, and the spouses with their partner made strong homes with a solid foundation and strong infrastructure. The book that contains reason and time is capable of passing through difficult and boring times, even the governments that contain their people make a people who have loyalty to the land and the leader what makes the glory. Let us hold you and hold us, God have mercy on you!