About needle recipe fix marriage!

If we look at our society for the fabric of its social relations, we will find that the fabric of families is disintegrating and weary, and that the proportion of divorce day after day is increasing. And I am not discussing the responsibility of the official and the burden of guilt without the other, although I see that the failure of marital relations in most cases to see the man is not a bias for me to be a female, but because the real men's stewardship of women, and attached to it, and because it is inherently emotional, respect and attention captures the heart of any A woman, makes her give everything she has to make the relationship a success.

And because it is in most cases the most affected in the cases of divorce, especially if there is no basis for it, and I mean here Sind testimony and function first and foremost, I write for them and highlight some of the decisions and misconducts carried out in her marriage, Its future sons; to have a farther look, and a more accurate and correct decision.

One of the most serious mistakes made by women in their own right is to hasten to have children immediately after marriage. I know that the desire to have an instinct is innate, but in our life and circumstances it is no longer as healthy as before. The duration of the engagement is not enough to know the characteristics and compatibility of the two associated individuals; therefore it is safe to delay thinking about procreation at least after the first year, , And the extent of compatibility and harmony contrary to what most married women are a little late in pregnancy, do not leave a doctor but consult him Although not pregnancy before the first year scientifically does not indicate any health problem, but many unfortunately marry for childbirth regardless Consider what they have about family concepts, and how to establish them on sound foundations.

It is the most folly of many women who have disagreements with their husbands that they are quick to give birth at close intervals, thinking that the children will strengthen the relationship, and bring their husbands to them, as if children vitamins strengthen love if it is already exist, or fix needles for marriage! Unaware that they are giving this society more victims on a plate of ignorance and disintegration, and individuals are increasing the number and dependency on it no more.

It is the naivety of some women who are blessed by the female god to continue to have children as if they are racing with time; the desire to have a male does not hurt their health, taking the advice of grandmothers or women who see marriage and children as their greatest achievement or achievement, considering that male is the mascot of women with her husband About thinking about another or looking for justifications for another marriage.

I wonder a lot of those who think so, and take their womb means to attract an indifferent husband or change a failed man is not responsible! And I wonder more than a woman married by her husband just to satisfy his whims and quickly procreation of him despite the shortness of all rights; just to tease the new wife, thinking that it will return to it! Are feelings a game sold and bought! Are we in the relationship of dice stones! And you see women who took the principles and rules of women of old time and gave birth to what they were able to children despite the differences were the fate of divorce and bear most of the burdens of children on their own, and they stumble and hindered them in entering a new life and a new marriage more wise.

If this is not their fate, it will be a tiring health, a broken psychological under a selfish husband who only knows of his duties with the material expenses he barely provides. My message to every woman who suffers in her marital life, if I gave birth at the wrong time in one way or another, and ended up just enough, the community does not need more victims, do not say that the Prophet peace be upon him said "

Is it conceivable to boast of children are a block of psychological contract! Or children who know nothing about religion because their father and mother are busy working for them to secure their basic life needs! Remember that children are not magical recipes to save a marriage on the edge of the abyss, or to repair what the age has spoiled, and that the husband will not change his or her child or ten. The children are not the fixing needles of the failed marriage, nor the elements of warping. They do not carry this burden under any item. They are not mice. Experiences!